HOW TO MAKE FRIENDS

Many desire good friends without knowing how to attract these friends.Some out of despair
have given up the hope of making true friends leaving everything to chance and time.
A wise man said,'He thatwill make friends must show himself friendly'.
Here lies the secret of making friends:show yourself friendly first.
This you can achieve by:

1.HARBOUR FRIENDLY THOUGHTS

Always see yourself as a lovable person.Imagine seeing sparks of acceptance in the eyes of men.Believe that good friends are still in existence and are ever willing to have a nice fellow like you for a friend.

Listen,this has nothing to do with abundance or lack of material things. Let your creative mind be fully convinced tha you worth more than any material thing.You are a unique being.When you think right ,you act rightly.

A man who shows himself friendly will not harbour malice,envy and any negative emotion towards a fellow man.Negative thoughts invisibly sends repulsive signals that keep men away from you.Positive thoughts attract friends.

2.INTEGRITY

You should be honest in your dealings with men.Let men trust your words and promises.Let your 'yes' be yes, your 'no' be 'no'.Never you mismanage any fund under your custody.You are a man of integrity:so speak and act,if you must make new friends who can help you in your spiritual,mental,family, business and communal life.Also, never you covet another man's belongings,wife or husband.

3.ESTEEM OTHERS

Always appreciate the good works of others, if their admiration you must win.Be constructive and tactful when being critical about their actions or opinions.Do not create an impression of a 'proud and I know it all' man.Speak graciously to others.Let them sense in your speech respect for their persons.As much as possible, break down the walls of social barriers and attract the kind of friends you need.
Always treat others the way you love to be treated.Never treat the next man the way you would not like a friend treat you.
Go,make friends !